Siblings of autistic children often have unique challenges and experiences. While some experiences may be shared, each sibling may have their own set of experiences. Sibling perceptions are different from child to child and family to family. Some view the experience as positive, while some are overwhelmed and move through the ups and downs of daily living with a sibling with a disability. Often having a sibling who is autistic involves numerous professionals in and out of the home, appointments for health care and therapies, higher stress and anxiety in parents, and often conforming to the needs of the autistic child. They may feel they need to compromise more often or feel they do not get their parent’s time or attention as much as their autistic sibling. They also may feel there are greater expectations on them to take on more chores at home, make concessions, and help with the autistic sibling. The family dynamic is also different from family to family. Family economic situations vary and family structures may be different with some children being raised by extended family members, such as grandparents.

There are ways to encourage positive interactions and growing from childhood to adulthood for siblings of autistic children:  

1. Help your child understand what autism is and is not, and how your autistic child is affected. 
2. Remember your child may be expected to take on additional responsibilities and there may be higher expectations for tolerance, concessions, and understanding.
3. Allow time for your child to express themselves and their thoughts, fears, and frustrations and answer questions they may have about their autistic sibling or other topics.
4. Make time to spend with the sibling of your autistic child alone and where your attention can be focused on that child.

The Sibling Box is an all-in-one set of materials for families to use with siblings. The box includes conversation starters, kid-friendly recipes, activities, and games. Both a printable and electronic version of the materials for the box are available below, as well as explanations for both versions. The Sibling Box was created by Amanda Foster from Montcalm ISD. 

• Sibling Box materials:
  • Printable version
  • Electronic version

Family Engagement Resources - coming soon