Just For Parents

All you need to know before your student goes Greek!


Role as a Parent

As a parent of someone who is interested in joining a fraternity or sorority, you have several roles. These include:

  • Be supportive and learn as much as you can by asking questions of your son or daughter as he or she meets people through the recruitment process. Fraternity and sorority members will be more than happy to tell them (and you) more about their group.
  • Encourage your son or daughter to attend as many campus events as possible before recruitment. Being involved is the best way to meet active Greek members and learn about their chapters. Involvement in other student organizations is looked favorably upon during the membership selection process.
  • Students need support throughout the process of recruitment/rush and new member education. Be supportive and learn as much as you can about Greek life by asking questions of your student as he/she meets members in fraternities and sororities.
  • Keep an open mind. Fraternity/Sorority life is not for everyone. Just because you may have been a fraternity or sorority member does not mean that it is the right choice for your son or daughter.
  • Fraternities and sororities are different on every campus. Groups that may have been strong on the campus where you attended school may not have the same reputation at Grand Valley. Let your son or daughter choose the group that he or she feels the most comfortable joining.
  • Talk to your son or daughter beforehand about the financial obligation. Determine who will pay for what and where the limits are.
  • Do not become too involved in the fraternity or sorority recruitment/rush process. This is your son or daughters decision.
  • Keep the Office of Student Life contact information on hand if you have any questions or concerns about Fraternity & Sorority Life at the Grand Valley State University (616) 331-2345.
  • If you sense your student may be participating in inappropriate activities as a result of membership in a fraternity or sorority, you should contact Fraternity and Sorority Life at (616) 331-2345 or the Grand Valley Police Department at (616) 331-3255. Calls will be handled in a discrete manner.

Frequently Asked Questions

Joining a fraternity or sorority at Grand Valley State University can provide students with opportunities for personal growth, leadership development, community service, and social engagement. Joining a fraternity or sorority offers students a chance to become part of a supportive and close-knit community that shares common values and goals. These organizations strive to create an inclusive and welcoming environment where members can build lifelong friendships, develop leadership skills, and engage in meaningful community service and philanthropy efforts. By being part of a fraternity or sorority, students have access to a wide range of resources, networking opportunities, and enriching experiences that contribute to a well-rounded and fulfilling college experience.

 

 

Joining a fraternity or sorority can have a significant impact on your student's college experience in several ways:

  1. Sense of Belonging: Fraternities and sororities provide a close-knit community and a sense of belonging on a large college campus. Your student will find a group of like-minded individuals with shared values and interests, creating a strong support network.

  2. Leadership Development: Many fraternities and sororities offer leadership opportunities, allowing your student to develop essential leadership and organizational skills. They may hold executive positions, plan events, and take on various responsibilities within the chapter.

  3. Social Engagement: Joining a fraternity or sorority opens doors to a wide range of social events, mixers, and activities. It offers a chance to build lasting friendships and participate in memorable college experiences.

  4. Community Service and Philanthropy: Fraternities and sororities are often actively involved in community service and philanthropy initiatives. Your student will have the opportunity to give back to the community and contribute to meaningful causes.

  5. Academic Support: Many fraternities and sororities offer academic support and resources to their members. They may provide study groups, tutoring, and academic incentives to help your student excel academically.

  6. Networking Opportunities: Being part of a fraternity or sorority offers a vast alumni network that can provide valuable connections and career opportunities after graduation.

  7. Personal Growth: Joining a fraternity or sorority provides an environment for personal growth and self-discovery. Your student may gain confidence, learn to collaborate with others, and develop a strong sense of responsibility.

  8. Campus Involvement: Fraternities and sororities are often involved in various campus activities and organizations, giving your student the chance to become more engaged and connected to the broader college community.

  9. Resume Enhancement: Involvement in a fraternity or sorority can enhance your student's resume, showcasing leadership experiences, community involvement, and teamwork skills to potential employers.

It's essential for your student to consider their personal values and interests when deciding whether to join a fraternity or sorority. Encourage open communication and research to ensure that the fraternity or sorority aligns with their goals and aspirations. When chosen thoughtfully, joining a fraternity or sorority can enrich your student's college experience and provide them with lasting memories and lifelong connections.

Yes, there is a financial commitment involved in joining a fraternity or sorority. Each fraternity and sorority has its own set of dues and fees that members are required to pay. These dues typically cover various expenses, including chapter operations, national organization fees, social events, community service projects, leadership development programs, and chapter facilities (if applicable).

The cost of membership can vary significantly between different fraternities and sororities and may depend on factors such as the size of the chapter, the location of the university, and the range of activities and services offered. It's essential for prospective members to inquire about the specific financial obligations associated with the fraternity or sorority they are interested in before making a commitment.

Students interested in joining a fraternity or sorority should consider the financial aspect as part of their decision-making process. It's advisable for them to have an open conversation with current members or chapter leadership to gain a clear understanding of the dues structure and any potential additional expenses throughout their membership. Additionally, some organizations may offer scholarships or payment plans to assist members who may face financial challenges in meeting their dues obligations.

Balancing academics with involvement in a fraternity or sorority is a common concern for both students and their parents. Here are some ways your student can effectively manage their academic responsibilities while being involved in Greek life:

  1. Time Management: Encourage your student to prioritize their academic commitments and create a well-structured schedule that includes study time, class attendance, and assignments. Effective time management will help them stay on top of their coursework while engaging in fraternity or sorority activities.

  2. Utilize Campus Resources: Many universities offer academic resources such as tutoring centers, writing labs, and academic advisors. Encourage your student to take advantage of these resources whenever they need additional support with their studies.

  3. Set Goals: Encourage your student to set academic goals and make a commitment to achieving them. Having clear objectives will motivate them to stay focused on their studies while balancing their fraternity or sorority involvement.

  4. Communicate with Professors: Encourage your student to communicate with their professors if they encounter any challenges or need extra help. Most professors are willing to provide guidance and assistance when students demonstrate their commitment to their studies.

  5. Collaborate with Peers: Studying with classmates or fellow fraternity/sorority members can be beneficial. Group study sessions can help your student stay motivated, understand the material better, and manage their academic workload effectively.

  6. Avoid Procrastination: Encourage your student to avoid procrastination and stay organized with deadlines and assignments. Procrastination can lead to unnecessary stress and hinder academic performance.

  7. Prioritize Academics during Exam Periods: During busy exam periods, your student may need to reduce their involvement in extracurricular activities, including fraternity or sorority events, to focus on their studies.

  8. Seek a Supportive Fraternity/Sorority Environment: Encourage your student to join a fraternity or sorority that emphasizes the importance of academics and provides support for members to excel in their studies.

  9. Be Realistic: Remind your student that it's okay to say "no" to certain social events or commitments if they need to prioritize their academics. Balancing academics and involvement in Greek life requires making responsible choices.

By adopting these strategies, your student can strike a balance between academics and fraternity/sorority involvement, ensuring they have a fulfilling college experience while achieving academic success.

Each council hosts various joining processes and more information can be found by visiting the How to Join page on our website here: https://www.gvsu.edu/greeklife/how-to-join-104.htm


Fraternity & Sorority Life is a part of the Office of Student Life, which is a department of the Division of Student Affairs of Grand Valley State University.



Page last modified November 16, 2021